First paragraph: 48 Days to the Work You Love

Very early in life we begin to determine what we want to be when we 48 Days to the Work You Lovegrow up. You may remember the childhood nursery rhyme: “Rich Man, Poor Man, Beggar Man, Thief, Doctor, Lawyer, Merchant, Chief.” We add other titles to that and begin to imagine the life as a Firefighter, Teacher, Entrepreneur, or Dentist. But as we begin school and start to grow up, there is a subtle yet significant transition from “Who do I want to be?” to “What am I going to do?” We are defined and valued in America by what we do. Unfortunately, the path to doing something often bypasses the basic questions about being something.

48 Days to the Work You Love: Preparing for the New Normal, 10th Anniversary Edition, Revised & Expanded by Dan Miller (Nashville: B&H Publishing Group, 2015)

In case you missed it, I reviewed this book yesterday.

First paragraph is an occasional feature on the blog. The first paragraph of any book should ideally set the tone of the book and whet the reader’s appetite. Some first paragraphs are even works of art in and of themselves. Others are more perfunctory but get the job effectively done. The hope is that these posts will inspire you to read more.

From my library: 48 Days to the Work You Love

Card catalogue data48 Days to the Work You Love
48 Days to the Work You Love: Preparing for the New Normal, 10th Anniversary Edition, Revised & Expanded by Dan Miller (Nashville: B&H Publishing Group, 2015)
Category: Vocational guidance
Format: Hardback from the library
Pages: 227

This is the second book I read in July, and the 17th book for 2016.

Bottom line
In this book for both job-hunters and folks contemplating a career change, Dan Miller gives you the motivation and the know-how to take the plunge into seeking the job that actually fulfills you.

About the author
Dan Miller is a psychologist and consultant who has built a career around helping people find their ideal career.

Why read this book
The heart of the book is the method Miller strongly suggests the reader uses to get a job, claiming it works for 86% of job seekers. Boiled down, the method is thus: Know your skills; research the potential companies that use those skills; arrange to see the person who has the power to hire; and request the interview. Of course there is much more detail in the book. It also involves following up with each company, an important part of the process. Alternatively, the process of sending thousands of resumes out online rarely results in a job offer.

Favorite quote

You don’t have to know the right people—you just have to get yourself in front of the right people.

Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
Great content and follow up questions to make you think.

Additional resources
The author has collected many additional resources, including sample resumes, at 48days.com.

First paragraph: Warren G. Harding

Warren Harding’s life began as the Civil War was ending. In the winter Warren G Hardingof 1864, George Tyron Harding, a Union soldier—a fifer who had once shaken President Lincoln’s hand at the White House—was sent home to the Harding family farm near Blooming Grove, Ohio, and his new wife, Phoebe Elizabeth Dickerson, to recover from jaundice. The war was over before Tyron could return to his troops, and much to Phoebe’s relief, for she was carrying their first son, who arrived on November 2, 1865. Phoebe wanted to name him Winfield but her husband preferred a family name: Warren Gamaliel. Warren was Tyron’s grandmother’s maiden name, and Gamaliel an uncle’s name that would prove to be prophetic. In the Bible, Gamaliel was noted for counseling moderation and calmness.

Warren G. Harding (The American Presidents Series, Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr., general editor) by John W. Dean (New York: Times Books, 2004)

In case you missed it, I reviewed this book yesterday.

First paragraph is an occasional feature on the blog. The first paragraph of any book should ideally set the tone of the book and whet the reader’s appetite. Some first paragraphs are even works of art in and of themselves. Others are more perfunctory but get the job effectively done. The hope is that these posts will inspire you to read more.

From my library: Warren G. Harding

Warren G HardingCard catalogue data
Warren G. Harding (The American Presidents Series, Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr., general editor) by John W. Dean (New York: Times Books, 2004)
Categories: U.S. history, presidential biography
Format: Hardback from the library
Pages: 170 (203 with end matter)

This is the first book I read in July, and the 16th for 2016.

Bottom line
Warren G. Harding, our 29th president, has been consistently ranked near the bottom of a list of best to worst U.S. chiefs. His legacy has been plagued with false accusations and distortions. This bio seeks to right that wrong and show Harding in the light of newly discovered papers that were long believed destroyed.

About the author
Yes, this is the John Dean who served as Richard Nixon’s White House counsel and was deeply involved in the Watergate scandal cover-up.

Why I read this book
I am pursuing a long-term goal of reading a biography of each U.S. president in order. Not surprisingly, there are not a lot of choices when looking for a biography on Harding. This one, from the Schlesinger’s American Presidents series, was unexpectedly quite good.

Rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Sources
The author uses presidential papers which had once been thought destroyed by Mrs. Harding.

From my library: The Five-Star Church

Card catalogue dataThe Five Star Church
The Five-Star Church: Serving God and His People with Excellence by Stan Toler and Alan Nelson (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Baker Books, 1999, 2012)
Category: Church administration
Format: Kindle
Pages: 230

This is the fourth book I read in June, and the 15th book in 2016.

Bottom line
When you go to a five-star hotel, you expect superior service and an outstanding product. What would happen if we as church leaders endeavored to raise the bar and have a five-star church?

About the authors
Stan Toler is a minister and general superintendent in the Church of the Nazarene and has written 100 books. Alan Nelson is a leadership expert, especially in identifying and developing 10-18 year olds.

Why I read this book
As someone who is interested in improving the systems that run a church, I read this book with special notice of the role of a church secret shopper and their help in improving churches.

Format of the book
Each chapter is divided into four sections: (1) a narrative fable where we follow the fictional account of a couple of ministers learning from the general manager of a five-star hotel, (2) an explanation of the principles and applications, (3) a question and answer section, and (4) a “Doers Section” with ideas for implementation.

What I’ve learned
Many of the principles in this book I was already aware of; we had implemented most of them at the church where I recently served. But there were some great reminders as well as some questions I had never thought of before. Certainly improving the church to five-star level is not the only thing our churches need, but it’s an important factor if we are to reach the unchurched and grow, not decline like most churches.

Favorite quote

A market-sensitive church need not compromise on its message, but it must change its methods if it is to meet the spiritual needs of people. Excuse my soapbox a second, but a market-oriented church gives people what they need in the way they like to receive it. Seems to me, that’s what Jesus did most of the time.

Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
I recommend this book to any church leader (but especially a senior leader) who is looking to improve their church. It’s also a good resource for church secret shopper ideas.

Appendices
There are some good resources in the back of the book, including surveys for secret shoppers and other forms.

Other related books
Mark Waltz has much to say on this topic in his trilogy of books First Impressions: Creating Wow Experiences in Your Church, Lasting Impressions: From Visiting to Belonging, and How to Wow Your Church Guests: 101 Ways to Make a Meaningful First Impression. From a business perspective, much of The Disney Institute’s Be Our Guest: Perfecting the Art of Customer Service translates into the church world.

First paragraph: The Wright Brothers

From ancient times and into the middle ages, man had dreamed of The Wright Brothers paperbacktaking to the sky, of soaring into the blue like the birds. One savant in Spain in the year 875 is known to have covered himself with feathers in the attempt. Others devised wings of their own design and jumped from rooftops and towers—some to their deaths—in Constantinople, Nuremberg, Perugia. Learned monks conceived schemes on paper. And starting about 1490, Leonardo da Vinci made the most serious studies. He felt predestined to study flight, he said, and related a childhood memory of a kite flying down onto his cradle.

The Wright Brothers by David McCullough (New York: Simon & Schuster Paperbacks, 2015, 2016)

In case you missed it, I wrote last week in depth about this book.

From my library: The Wright Brothers

Card catalogue dataThe Wright Brothers paperback
The Wright Brothers by David McCullough (New York: Simon & Schuster Paperbacks, 2015, 2016)
Categories: U.S. history, biography; aeronautics
Format: Paperback
Pages: 262 (321 with end matter)

This is the third book I read in June, and the 14th book I read in 2016.

Bottom line
This engaging biography shows the tenacity, ability, and curiosity of a couple of Dayton bicycle mechanics as they begin the age of flight.

About the author/Why I read this book
I had to put these two categories together because they interweave. I love reading U.S. history and biography and there is no better writer in this genre than David McCullough. His most well-known book is John Adams, on which the 2008 HBO miniseries was based. McCullough twice received the Pulitzer Prize, for John Adams and for Truman. He also received the Presidential Medal of Freedom among many other awards and honors. He is among my top five favorite authors of any genre. He makes history read like a novel. I will read anything he has published.

By the way, years ago McCullough was the narrator voice for the PBS series American Experience. I love his voice. I find my mind reading his books in his voice. As a bonus, the audio version of the book is read by the author himself.

Beyond just the appeal to me of the author, the subject itself is fascinating. It’s hard for us now in the 21st century to imagine, but try to put yourself in the time frame, when manned, heavier-than-air flight was an impossibility. Yes, I knew about the Wright flier. I remember visiting D.C. as a seventh grade student and seeing it suspended in the Smithsonian National Air and Space Museum. (You can also see a replica here locally at the Tellus Museum in Cartersville, Georgia. And at The Henry Ford in Dearborn, Michigan, you can see the Wright family’s home and the Wright Cycle Shop.) But beyond the flier and knowing they carried their experiments out at KItty Hawk, I knew very little about them.

What I’ve learned
Of course I already knew of the two brothers, Wilbur and Orville Wright. But in this book I learned of the important roles that their sister Katharine Wright and their father Bishop Milton Wright played. I felt like I knew this family after reading this book. What was most fascinating was the brothers’ tenacity. Yes, they had abilities and intellect, but it was their dogged determination that made the difference for them. It’s a great reminder that persistence will win over talent and skill every time.

Favorite quote

No bird soars in a calm.

—Wilbur Wright

Rating: 5 out of 5 stars
Highly recommended.

Author’s sources
McCullough’s sources are always extensive. The greatest treasure trove can be found at the Library of Congress, where many of the Wright family papers are stored. Included in this stash are the many letters the family wrote. McCullough says the entire family wrote so clearly and expressed their thoughts so well in writing. In our 21st century world we seem to be losing that ability.

Other related books
If you would like to read further on the topic of inventions and discoveries at the turn of the 20th century, I would highly recommend McCullough’s book The Greater Journey: Americans in Paris, another fascinating book.

Wowsie wowsie woo woo: How attitude changes everything

Schleprock
Bad Luck Schleprock

I remember a short-lived cartoon from when I was about nine or ten years old called The Pebbles and Bam-Bam Show. It focused on the Flinstones’ and the Rubbles’ kids in their teenage years. Sally Struthers (Gloria on All in the Family) and Jay North (Dennis the Menace) voiced the title characters. But the character that stands out the most was Bad Luck Schleprock (voiced by Don Messick, who was also behind the similar voice of Droopy the Dog and hundreds of other cartoon characters from my youth).

Schleprock’s signature line was, “Oh wowsie wowsie woo woo. Miserable day, isn’t it?” He seemed to live under a perpetual dark cloud and brought bad luck with him wherever he went. You could say he was the death of the party due to his poor attitude.

The word “attitude” has gotten a bad rap in recent years. It’s often come to mean that someone has given us some lip or has been seen as too haughty. As in, “Don’t give me that attitude!”

Or we tend to think of attitude as something that happens to us. As if we have no control over it. It’s like a cloud that settles over us and we have no way to get out from under it. Wowsie wowsie woo woo.

But many times we have much more control over our attitude than we realize. And it’s the successful person who has figured out how to maximize a positive attitude in order to move forward.

At no time is this more important than when we fail. When we stumble, it is so easy to fall into a pit of despair and failure, wallowing in a negative attitude that colors the rest of our day. We find ourselves under a cloud. And it seems to move with us.

Even the word “fail” has such negative baggage with it, and is so close to the word “failure.” No one wants to be a failure, but it’s easy to go from “I’ve failed” to “I’m a failure.”

What if, instead, we looked at failures as opportunities to learn? What if, instead of beating ourselves up, we did some deep thinking about how we can grow from the experience and be better the next time? What if, instead of feeling defeated, we took an honest appraisal of what went well and what we can improve on, and looked with a positive attitude to how we can be even better?

We have the power to walk out from under that dark cloud and create a new reality. And it all starts with attitude.

Beautiful day, isn’t it?

From my library: The 7 Rings of Marriage by Jackie Bledsoe

Card catalogue dataThe 7 Rings of Marriage
The 7 Rings of Marriage: Your Model for a Lasting and Fulfilling Marriage by Jackie Bledsoe (Nashville: B&H Publishing Group, 2016)
Category: Marriage
Format: Paperback
Pages: 194 (207 with end matter)
About the author: Jackie Bledsoe is a professional blogger (jackiebledsoe.com), author, and speaker who is a young rising star in Baptist circles. He and his wife Stephana have been through the good and bad of marriage and want to pass along all the lessons they have learned.
Bottom line: Excellent marriage book that outlines seven stages of marriage in “rings”: Engagement RING, Wedding RING, DiscoveRING, PerseveRING, RestoRING, ProspeRING, and MentoRING. No matter where you are in your marriage, you will get something out of this. His emphasis, from a Christian perspective, includes prayer, communication, commitment, and many other concepts. Highly recommend.

Why I read this book
I had started this book before I left my former church position as I was considering Bledsoe as a speaker for a marriage retreat. I finished it after I left because it was so good. The author speaks form experience—not just a rose-colored glasses look at another fake perfect Christian marriage. They have been through many struggles and learned how to grow through them. He fully admits that a good marriage takes hard work, just like anything else worth having in life, but it’s totally worth it and the benefits far outweigh the costs.

What I’ve learned
One of the many things I have learned, or been reminded of, is the importance of praying together as a couple. I have let this slip in our marriage and want to restore this. Also the importance of communication in general, which takes time. I’m learning in this time of unemployment how important our communication is.

Favorite quote
“Marriage isn’t for you.” (Meaning when we live our marriage trying to please and honor each other, rather than always focusing on what pleases ourselves, we’ll have a great marriage.)

Rating: 5 out of 5 stars
Recommend for every couple no matter what stage you are in; also recommend to young singles looking to see what marriage should be as they plan for their futures.

Other related books:
Bledsoe also has a Bible study format of the book called The 7 Rings of Marriage: Practical Biblical Wisdom for Every Season of Your Marriage.

If you are willing

Large crowds followed Jesus as he came down the mountainside. Suddenly, a man with leprosy approached him and knelt before him. “Lord,” the man said, “if you are willing, you can heal me and make me clean.”

Jesus reached out and touched him. “I am willing,” he said. “Be healed!” And instantly the leprosy disappeared.

—Matthew 8:1-3 NLT

Jesus, no doubt exhausted and spent, comes down from the mountain after preaching “the sermon on the mount” over the past few days to a crowd of people. The crowds follow Him, curious. They ponder all that He has said, and what it means.

Out of the midst of the crowd comes an unnoticed—until now—undesirable. A leper.

People are afraid of a leper, afraid of catching the disease. Lepers are repugnant with their open sores and rotting flesh. And spiritually speaking, they are considered unclean to the Jewish people and should be kept outside the city gates. Yet, here he is. I imagine the crowd parting to get away from him.

Think of the courage it has taken him. Courage to step out of the faceless crowd, to be identified as an unwanted segment of society. Mothers shielding their eyes from even looking at him, pulling their children behind them to protect. Men contorting their countenance in disgust.

Courage not only to step out of the crowd, but also to approach this prophet of God, this mysterious man.

He approaches him and kneels and addresses Him as Lord. Note the respect and reverence. Note the humility. It reminds me of Paul’s words in Philippians 2:10-11 (NLT) when Paul says “that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue declare that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

It takes courage to not only step out of the crowd and humbly be identified as unclean, but to further humble himself by bowing and honoring Jesus as Lord.

After demonstrating his willingness to humble Himself before Jesus, the leper ascertains Christ’s willingness to heal him. “If you are willing.”

He finds what millions after him have found: That Christ is willing to heal (although not always in the way that we expect).

Leprosy is not a disease we deal with much in first-world, 21st-century America. But there are plenty of other plagues, both literal and figurative. And there is the disease that has infected all mankind: the sin sickness of our race.

What do you need to approach the Lord with? Whatever it might be, it will take willingness, humility, and courage on your part. But Jesus is ready, willing, and able to heal.